“I want to be honest with you about something, because I don’t like pretending. When you keep asking for video calls, sometimes it makes me feel like maybe you don’t really trust me, and that honestly hurts a little. I know you might not mean it that way, but that’s how it makes me feel inside.
It’s not that I don’t want to see you or talk to you face to face. The truth is, I’m actually a shy person. Sometimes it’s really hard for me to be on video, especially with a man I’m still getting to know. I get nervous, I start overthinking, and yes… I even blush. It’s a real feeling for me, not something I’m trying to avoid.
For me, video calls are something personal and special. I don’t like doing it just because someone keeps asking. I want to do it when I feel relaxed, safe, and when I feel something real is growing between us. That way the moment will be natural and meaningful, not forced or uncomfortable.
I really enjoy talking to you and getting to know you. I just need you to be a little patient with me and trust my feelings too. When I feel ready and comfortable, I will definitely come through with my emotions, because that’s the kind of person I am.”
Look, guys, I always say this: you really have to find your passion before you jump into business. It’s not just about the money, trust me. If you don't love it, you’ll dread waking up. But once you find yourself, everything just clicks and feels easy.
